loius ck is abortion taking a shit or murdering babies?
I think Louis CK is hilarious, and really dark, really macabre, but funny as hell. I appreciate comedy so much. I think it is very therapeutic to laugh at difficult … Continue reading
the problem with feminism
The problem with feminism is that it has accomplished very little in the way of #realfeminism. Primarily, what feminism has accomplished, is allowing women to succeed when they act like … Continue reading
Is race a social construct and is it okay for people to self-identify?
This is a food-for-thought question. Is race a social construct? Is it okay for people to self-identify as a race that is not represented in their genetics? The obvious example … Continue reading
Right and Wrong is a mental construct
Everybody wants to be right. Everybody thinks they are right. (Almost everybody) Very few people will ever say “I don’t know” or “I need more information”. We usually go full … Continue reading
One of those Days
Yesterday was one. I saved my house from burning down, was excused from a parking ticket, and listened to the 12yo’s band concert. All in one day. It started out … Continue reading
favorite holiday memory
This was a long and arduous holiday season for me. I always start enjoying the season as soon as Christmas is over, because that is when I finally relax. I’m … Continue reading
the ultimate love story, Romeo and Juliet
We watched this movie tonight. This is the 1996 Baz Luhrmann directed Romeo and Juliet with Leonardo diCaprio and Claire Danes. The script is the Shakespearean prose – the modern … Continue reading
is this what you think about marijuana? a post about alcohol
Over the past summer, the Gander quit drinking. It was a long time coming, drinking alcohol was a problem for us, and our relationship, and our kids, that it took … Continue reading
I don’t love Christmas
Is that a better title than “I hate Christmas”? – because that is what I really wanted to write. As a child, I loved Christmas. We didn’t have any extended … Continue reading